I read a really good fic where Buffy was the one who gave Wes the kissing lessons but that one probably wouldn't work for you. *G*

though Wes/Giles is about the only Wes relationship I can't do; well, that and Wes/Buffy (unless it's really dark).

I can't read Giles/Buffy and Giles/Willow. I think I'm too invested in Giles as their father figure so it squicks me, whereas Dru pouting 'It's not Daddy, it's never Daddy' in 'Reunion' I absolutely love, so clearly I have one rule for vampire incest and another rule for humans, or just, you know, no consistency.

can I vote for Xander giving him the kissing lessons?

Lord, yes. I love Wes/Xander, but there never seems to be enough of it, especially with Wes, er, um, *reveals yet new depths of shallowness* not on top...